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《Mom No Teach I Teach》EP2:
Does intercourse make vulva darker?

1 Apr 2022
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首先,我們要知道鮑鮑本來就比較黑!性器官組織本身就比身體其他部位有更多黑色素細胞。出現比較深色的地方可以是大小陰唇、陰蒂包皮和會陰皮膚。外陰的深色也不是平均的,很多時候有自然形成、或後天創傷造成的色素不均勻。

那麼在什麼情況下黑色素會沈澱呢?

1. 荷爾蒙改變
荷爾蒙改變,例如經歷青春期、更年期、懷孕或服用避孕藥,都有可能令黑色素更沉聚,令鮑鮑變深色。

2. 鮑鮑受傷會黑化!
正如皮膚受損後有機會留下深色疤痕,外陰也一樣有這樣的可能。受傷的成因可以是發炎、創傷、皮膚病、皮膚療程等等。譬如,有些會在陰部滋長的真菌,例如硬化性苔蘚、扁平苔蘚,都容易導致外陰發炎和形成深色的皮膚組織。人種的膚色比較深,普遍來說創傷後形成的深沉顏色會比較明顯。長時間處於潮濕環境,也會令外陰容易發炎,所以穿太厚、會焗住汗水的褲,或是不勤換衞生巾等等,都有機會令外陰變深色。

3. 而磨擦也會令鮑鮑受傷!
我們理解創傷,很多時候是想像流血等等,但其實日常的磨擦也有機會令外陰皮膚受損,然後出現更多黑色素。會磨擦到外陰的情況有很多,例如:
- 除毛,不論剃毛、蜜蠟還是激光,都有機會令膚色加深
- 皮膚太乾燥
- 穿太緊的面褲和內褲
- 性愛是其中一個磨擦的原因

雖說性愛是黑鮑成因之一,但不能倒過來說黑鮑就一定是性愛頻繁。況且性愛頻繁又如何?

廿一世紀還要玩蕩婦羞辱(slut shaming)嗎?

咁點解AV女優的外陰如此白皙?很多是做美白療程的,例如激光、美白霜等等,而非天生如此。面對鮑鮑的顏色比較深,好多人都會想去做醫學美容,美白外陰,但要考慮的點是,美白療程是要花錢花時間的,而且美白外陰本身並不會提升性歡愉。

如果你的伴侶因為咁而嫌棄甚至羞辱你,而令你想美白外陰,佢有甚麼令你覺得做美白療程是值得的呢?做了美白療程,是否代表他更願意與你做愛,是否代表佢會更愛你呢?

最後,外陰和皮膚一樣,總會有時深色點,有時淺色點,但無論佢係乜野色,係你自己的都是值得你去愛去欣賞的好鮑。如果發現外陰皮膚突然變深色、皮膚質地有改變、出現不適和痛楚,就很應該求醫。

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Hongkongers tend to demean darkened vulvas as “black abalones”.

First, we have to understand that the vulva is supposed to be darker! Genital skin generally has more melanin-producing skin cells. Hyperpigmentation can appear on both labia majora and minora, clitoral hood and perineum. And the darkening doesn’t have to be uniform. Irregular distribution can occur naturally or after trauma.

So what would cause melanin to accumulate in the vulva?

1. Hormonal change
Hormonal changes happen during puberty, menopause, pregnancy and contraception pill usage. These may cause dark pigments to accumulate.

2. Injured vulva darkens
Just as scars are left after skin damage, the vulva may darken this way as well. The causes for injury include inflammation, trauma, skin diseases, skin treatments, etc. Some fungi that grow in the private parts, such as lichen sclerosis and lichen planus, could lead to inflammation and darkening of vulva skin. Ethnicities with darker skin tone tend to have more significant hyperpigmentation after trauma. Long-term exposure to damp environments could cause inflammation too. That means wearing thick pants that trap sweat, or not changing menstrual pads frequently, could lead to darkening skin as well.

3. Friction can cause damage too!
When we talk about injury, we might imagine things like bleeding. However, friction experienced on a daily basis could cause trauma and melanin production too. Friction can come from many means, for example:
- Hair removal, whether by shaving, waxing or laser treatment.
- Wearing tight pants and underwear
- Intercourse can be one of the reasons as well

Even though intercourse could cause darkened vulvas, we can’t blame every darkened vulva on frequent sex. Plus, so what if someone has sex often? Slut shaming is so outdated in the 21st Century.

So why do female pornstars have light-toned vulvas? A lot of them undergo whitening treatments, e.g. laser treatments and topical ointments. Their white vulvas are often not natural-born. Some people might consider cosmetic surgery to deal with vulva hyperpigmentation, but one has to consider the time and financial cost of whitening treatments, and the fact that a whitened vulva itself does not improve sexual gratification.

If you partner despises or humiliates you for having a darker vulva, and urges you to undergo treatment, you have to ask if they are worth the risk. Would they want to have sex with you more then? Does that mean they would love you more?
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